Conversion / Becoming Jewish

No. Basic Judaism classes are open to anyone who wants to learn more about Judaism, including individuals considering conversion, interfaith couples, and those who were born Jewish and want to learn more about their own heritage. Although many people do take the course as part of the process of converting to Judaism, there are no assumptions or expectations that you will convert as a result of your participation in the class.

People convert to Judaism for many reasons. Some are seeking religious meaning in their lives—with or without any connection to a Jewish partner—and simply find that Judaism offers a spiritual and religious place in which they are comfortable. For others, a relationship or marriage with a Jewish person offers them a first chance to explore Judaism. And there are those who choose a path to conversion upon discovering that their family has a history that includes people of the Jewish faith.

The best way to begin is by participating and learning. Try attending services or events at the temple; if you have Jewish friends or Jewish family members, ask to share in Shabbat and holidays with them. As you study and explore Jewish practice and customs at your own pace, you will become increasingly comfortable with them.

Another way to get a sense of Jewish traditions and practices is to enroll in introductory classes in Judaism which KI offers to the entire community.

First, make an appointment with the rabbi who will discuss the process of conversion, design an educational path for you to take, and guide you through every step of the process. The rabbi will discuss your reasons for wanting to convert.

People considering conversion to Judaism are expected to study Jewish theology, rituals, history, culture, and customs, and to begin incorporating Jewish practice into their lives.

No. Judaism is an open religion that readily encourages and welcomes those who turn to it for fulfillment and guidance in meeting life's challenges. At the same time, Judaism respects the religious beliefs of others, as well as the convictions of those who choose no religion.

Yes. Modern-day Reform Jews wholeheartedly welcome those who have chosen to convert to Judaism, recognizing that our Jewish community is made stronger by those who actively seek to become Jews. As more and more people choose to enter the Jewish community and as public discussion of such choice grows more commonplace, they have found that their acceptance in the Jewish community has grown. In fact, the Reform Jewish community, as a whole, is proud of its many congregational leaders, as well as a number of rabbis and cantors, who have converted.

Not all. Reform, Reconstructionist, and, under certain circumstances, Conservative rabbis, recognize the validity of conversions performed by rabbis of all branches of Judaism. Most Orthodox rabbis, however, do not recognize non-Orthodox conversions. Your rabbi can discuss this with you.

No. Conversion to a new religion does not make you into something altogether new, nor does it require you to sever family ties or memories. Some converts to Judaism find, however, that, especially initially, their family may be hurt or confused by their choice. You are not alone. The rabbi would be willing to discuss this with you.

Yes. Many interfaith couples raise their children as Jews, and in many such families, the non-Jewish parent still plays a key role in providing for their children’s Jewish education and creating a supportive Jewish home environment. The more you learn about Judaism, the easier this will be for you. Many Jews see such parents as the givers of a precious gift and as a blessing to the Jewish people.

Yes. KI warmly welcomes interfaith families to participate in synagogue life in various ways. Compelled by a verse from the Book of Isaiah 56:7 —“My house shall be called a house of prayer for all peoples" — almost all Jewish worship services are open to the public, so you and your family are welcome to attend. Shabbat services are held on Friday evenings and some Saturday mornings. Call the temple office during the week to find out specific times of worship.